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Create your Bar Mitzvah invitation in 2 minutes

Send via WhatsApp. Track responses. Manage gifts.

Event name

Date

Create my invitation — free →

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WhatsApp-first

Your guests receive a real message, not an email lost in spam.

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Multilingual

French, Hebrew, English, Spanish. Each guest receives the message in their language.

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Gifts + Budget

Track gifts received, manage expenses, see the balance. All in one tool.

How it works

Create your event

Name, date, venue. In 30 seconds.

Add your guests

Import contacts or type names one by one.

Send via WhatsApp

Personalized message with each guest's name.

Features

Automatic בס״ד on your invitation

Hebrew date displayed

Pre-filled Bar Mitzvah budget

Messages in Hebrew and English

Why Tov.events for Your Bar Mitzvah?

Planning a Bar Mitzvah is one of the most meaningful milestones in a Jewish family's life — and one of the most complex to organize. Whether you're hosting in New York, London, Jerusalem, or coordinating across all three, Tov.events was built specifically for families like yours.

Most invitation platforms treat a Bar Mitzvah like any other party. We know better. Your guest list probably spans multiple countries and time zones. Grandma in Tel Aviv needs her invitation in Hebrew, Uncle David in Manchester wants English, and your cousins in Paris prefer French. With Tov.events, each guest receives their invitation in their own language — automatically.

Our WhatsApp-first approach means your invitations actually get seen. No more emails lost in spam folders or paper invitations delayed in international mail. Your guests receive a beautifully designed invitation directly in their WhatsApp — the app they check dozens of times a day. They can RSVP with a single tap, and you see their response in real time on your dashboard.

Track gifts as they come in, manage your budget with pre-filled Bar Mitzvah categories (venue, DJ, photographer, kippot, tefillin, catering), and send personalized thank-you messages after the celebration. The automatic בס״ד and Hebrew date display show your guests this invitation was crafted with care and respect for tradition.

“We had 180 guests across the US, Israel, and France for Ethan's Bar Mitzvah. Tov.events let us send invitations in three languages and track every RSVP from one dashboard. My mother-in-law in Haifa got hers in Hebrew, and our friends in New Jersey got theirs in English. We had 90% responses within 48 hours.”

— Rachel M., Teaneck, NJ

FAQ

Can I include the Hebrew date and parasha on my Bar Mitzvah invitation?

Yes! Tov.events automatically displays the Hebrew date on your invitation. You can also add custom text mentioning the parasha, aliyah details, or any other information specific to your son's Bar Mitzvah.

How do I manage guests in different countries and languages?

Simply tag each guest with their preferred language (English, Hebrew, French, or Spanish). When you send invitations via WhatsApp, each guest receives the message in their language. The invitation page itself adapts to the guest's language preference.

Can I track gifts and send thank-you notes?

Absolutely. Our gift tracking feature lets you log each gift as it arrives, note the amount or item, and then send personalized thank-you messages via WhatsApp. Many families find this saves hours of post-event follow-up.

Is there a budget tool for Bar Mitzvah expenses?

Yes. We provide a pre-filled budget template with common Bar Mitzvah categories — venue, catering, DJ, photographer, decorations, kippot, tefillin bag, and more. You can customize categories and track spending versus gifts received.

What if some guests don't have WhatsApp?

No problem. You can share your invitation link via SMS, email, or any messaging app. The invitation page works beautifully on any device and browser — WhatsApp is just the primary delivery method.

Can I have separate events for Shabbat and the party?

Yes! Many families create separate events on Tov.events — one for the Shabbat kiddush and one for the Sunday party. You can manage different guest lists, track RSVPs independently, and send targeted messages for each event.

How much does it cost?

The basic version is free. Advanced features are available in premium.

How does WhatsApp sending work?

You prepare your message, and the app opens WhatsApp with the pre-filled message for each guest. You send from your own number.

Does it work in Hebrew?

Yes! The interface and invitations are available in Hebrew with full RTL support.

How do I know who responded?

Each guest receives a link to your invitation page. When they respond, you get notified in real time.

More questions? Visit our help center →

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