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Bat mitzvah invitationבת מצווה

From the ceremony to the party, everyone gets their own moments.

A bat mitzvah invitation in 4 languages, with the Hebrew date. Each household gets its link on WhatsApp, sees only the moments it is invited to, and replies for the whole household.

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Invitation designs for it

Each design is a small world: a setting, a gesture, music composed for it. Pick one, add your names, and your guests reply moment by moment.

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Several moments, one invitation

Everyone is invited to their moments.

You decide who comes to what. Pick a household to see what it receives.

Example. The moments, households and places are yours to set.

Sarah & Julien

invite you to Tamar’s bat mitzvah

For: Tamar’s grandparents

  • CeremonySunday, June 27, 2027 · 11 am · Synagogueכ״ב בסיון תשפ״ז
  • LunchSunday, June 27, 2027 · 1 pm · Community hallכ״ב בסיון תשפ״ז
  • PartySunday, June 27, 2027 · 6 pm · Reception hallכ״ב בסיון תשפ״ז
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What you get

Everything you need, simply.

Designed with Sephardi, Ashkenazi, Mizrahi and secular families.

  • Sent on WhatsApp, household by household

    Each household gets its own link, sent from your phone. No group, no broadcast list.

  • One reply per household

    Each household says how many people are coming, moment by moment. Nothing is assumed for them.

  • The Hebrew date, worked out for you

    The Hebrew date appears on the invitation, next to the civil date.

  • The caterer’s questions

    Dietary needs, allergies, transport: add the questions you need.

  • Who replied, who hasn’t

    Follow the replies live, and resend the link to anyone who hasn’t answered yet.

  • The replies in a file

    Download the list of replies for the caterer or the venue (a CSV file that opens in Excel).

Around the bat mitzvah

The traditions, explained.

To understand every custom, and prepare it well.

Questions

What people ask us.

Another question? The help center answers in French. Help center

When is the bat mitzvah?

At 12, by the Hebrew calendar: the date counts from your daughter’s Hebrew birthday. Depending on the community, it is a ceremony or a festive meal where she gives a dvar Torah (a talk on the Torah portion), or a Torah reading.

Can we invite her classmates to the party only?

Yes. You create your moments (ceremony, lunch, party…) and choose, household by household, who is invited to what. Each household sees only its moments and says how many people are coming to each.

Do our guests need an account?

No. They open the link they got on WhatsApp and reply. That’s all.

Can we ask about allergies?

Yes. Add the ready-made questions (diet, allergies, transport…): each household answers with its invitation, and you download the answers as a CSV file for the caterer.

How much does it cost?

Nothing during the beta: you create, send and follow your invitations without paying, and with no ads.

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